Kinky Party Organizer Hated For Posting She's Looking For A Husband
Kinky party organizer Tatyana Dmitrieva, 36, posted on her social media about looking for a husband and faced hate. Many began calling her crazy and attributing narcissistic disorder to her.
The founder of the Kinky Company project and DJ Tanya Dmitrieva, after her divorce in 2013 from her first husband, with whom she has a child, did not look for a serious relationship for a long time. She became interested in sex education and devoted herself to work for a while, but then decided to start looking for a partner again.
Tatyana had difficulties with this. As she herself believes, partly because people had the wrong opinion about her because of her activities and interests. So Dmitrieva wrote and posted a detailed post about herself and what kind of partner she was looking for. Tatyana said that she is monogamous and respects traditions, that she does not drink alcohol or smoke, that she wants to have at least two children. And also that she cannot imagine a happy relationship without responsibility, respect and healthy communication, without common interests, hobbies and passions. Her list of interests includes, among other things, traveling, shamanism, “new bodily experience, sex, sports, yoga and spiritual practices.”
Tatyana described her potential husband as “self-confident, not afraid to show his feelings (even cry), able to take responsibility and speak with words through his mouth.” Dmitrieva also noted that she needs a man who has worked through his childhood traumas, loves “flowers in vases, experiments in sex and emptiness in meditations,” who “always has enough money” in his account. “I am looking for you — a person with a consonant lifestyle, the same values and similar goals in life,” she wrote.
Most of Tatyana's followers supported her, but after her post went viral, the woman faced hate. Some thought she was looking for a "unicorn" - a man who doesn't exist. Some thought there was something wrong with her, like, on the one hand, she was a "boring healthy lifestyle person", and on the other, a "pervert" who wasn't satisfied with regular sex. Some didn't like that Dmitrieva talked too much about herself and her needs, about her desire to get married, thus "killing" the mystery and scaring men away.
Tatyana took this reaction philosophically. In her new post, she wrote that she sees no point in hiding her true self and that she believes in the existence of the man she described. “There is a possibility that there are few of them, but I repeat – I only need one,” she said.